How to make the Twin Flame Journey joyful?
Meeting your Twin Flame is like preparing for the most significant encounter of your life.
It requires self-control, a profound respect for love, and the ability to navigate all conflicts that arises. Which requires a spiritual and emotional maturity. Imagine holding onto your dream, sealing away negativity, and embracing the most beautiful gift life can offer—perfect love. It's about giving in without winning every argument, preserving the integrity of the one you love, ensuring a balance that guarantees your own well-being.
But it's not just about your Twin Flame; it's about a dedication beyond, to something greater than both of you—God. This requires a deep love for God, a clear understanding of your path, and a commitment to avoid the pitfalls of human ego and self-indulgence.
In relationships, you can't demand that someone completes your personality or fills every role in your life. Instead, you must strive to be whole in yourself, eliminating self-pity and constant demands for attention. By doing so, you become a magnet for wholeness in others.
When seeking your Twin Flame, the desire should be to offer the gift of your love, your true self, and your spiritual and professional achievements. It's like choosing what you bring to the relationship. To understand this better, reflect on what you can give and what you struggle to provide. Perhaps you can't cook, but that doesn't mean you can't learn. It's about the basics—keeping a schedule, adding happiness to a household, being patient with children, and understanding your own moods and ups and downs. You need to work on each and every upset’s arising in these and all aspects of your life.
As you assess what you can offer and what you need to work on, consider it from the perspective of the other person. Pretend you're seeing yourself from the other side of your mirror. Would you be interested in this person? Would this wonderful person you're imagining want you? To be noticed, you must become the wonderful person you desire to be with, not just in appearance but in heart and soul. It's about having the qualities you seek in others and being honest about your shortcomings.
Relationships require honesty, especially when you foresee challenges. If you recognize that a major aspect you are operating with lack, that eventually the lack in loving yourself you must work on healing all those aspects.
In the end, as you navigate relationships and seek your Twin Flame, the essence is in striving for personal growth, maintaining honesty, and understanding that each person is on a journey of self-discovery. The pursuit of a Twin Flame is not just about finding the perfect partner but about becoming the best version of yourself.
